August 25th, 2014

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year?

school busForget January 1. As the parent of a school-age child, the first day of school rings in the real New Year where the optimism shines as brightly as the new first-day-of-school outfit.  My son, though, has never been able to fully revel in this joyful season.  Instead of inspiring him with talk of a new start or lofty resolutions, his ever cynical mother can offer only real-life, social-doom-related adages, such as never ever leave your lunch tray unattended at any time for any reason or let your cosmetologist cousin “fix” your hair the day before class pictures.

This summer, I resolved to rediscover the magic of a new year by reading and watching characters reinvent themselves. My favorites included:

Still Life with Bread Crumbs by Anna Quindlen
Rebecca, a once famous photographer, finds herself stuck in a raccoon-infested cabin in rural New York consumed by worries about money and her stalled career.  Relaxing into daily life with her quirky neighbors and the roofer who traps the rampaging raccoon, Rebecca leaves her old self behind, finding inspiration and a late-in-life second chance in the upstate woods.

Where’d You Go, Bernadette? by Maria Semple
Once renowned L.A. architect Bernadette Fox finds both the people and weather of Seattle eroding her sanity. Attempting to plan a long promised family trip to Antarctica hilariously derails as Bernadette is forced to ever more eccentric means of hiding her agoraphobia. Bewildered by his wife’s behavior, Microsoft guru Elgin Branch attempts a mental health intervention, during which Bernadette mysteriously disappears. Compiled by her daughter, the story uses Internet postings, emails, magazine articles and FBI reports to trace Bernadette’s journey back to her family and a rediscovered life.

The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving by Jonathan Evison
A former stay-at-home dad whose wife has left him, Ben takes the job of caregiver to Trev, a teen with muscular dystrophy, hoping to find a purpose in life. Their subsequent road trip in search of Trev’s estranged father (during which they pick up a runaway, a pregnant farm girl and a tail in a Skylark) points the way to forgiveness for Ben’s past deeds.

Doctor Who: The Second Series – DVD

The poster child of reinvention, Dr. Who’s regeneration in “The Christmas Invasion” features murderous Santa robots, a deadly spinning Christmas tree and a plot by the alien Sycorax to enslave the human race.  Putting his own stamp on the beloved character, David Tennant’s debut as Dr. Who encapsulates both the confusion and excitement wrought by a brand new start.

Busy Monsters by William Giraldi
Jilted by his fiancée for a giant squid hunting oceanographer, Charles seeks to win her back by embarking on a manhood-proving quest of his own. Confronting Bigfoot, alien abductees and other questionable creatures, he fights his own self-created monsters on a comic road trip to true love.

All good intentions aside, as my son left the car to wait at the bus stop all I could think to say was to sit toward the front, keep your eyes forward, ears closed and hands to yourself. I was rewarded with a massive eye roll and just the hint of a smile. I guess there’s always next year.

What’s your favorite back-to-school advice?


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July 28th, 2014

Gospel Choir Comes to Elkton Central Library 8/23

Wrights AME ChoirI was always curious about the word AME.  As a kid, I regularly saw various churches bearing the acronym and even visited a few with my grandmother. However, I never knew what the AME stood for, that is, until ten years ago. My sister began dating my soon-to-be brother-in-law and like any responsible, overprotective brother, I had to see if this guy was worthy of my sister. So I took a trip down to Fort Walton Beach, FL. I did not know at the time of my investigation that my now brother-in-law was a pastor of an AME church which stands for African Methodist Episcopal. During my visit, I attended church on Sunday, hearing him preach and listening to the various melodic hymnals sung by the church choir, uplifting the congregation’s spirit.

Between songs and the sermon, I read the rich history of the AME church on the back of the church program. Founded in the 1800’s by Richard Allen, a former Delaware slave, AME grew out of the Free African Society who worshiped at a St. George’s Methodist church in Philadelphia.  However, when members of the St. George Methodist church pulled blacks off their knees while praying, Allen and others members of the Free African Society willed and determined that they would form their own African Methodist church congregation.  The split from the main branch of the Methodist church was not a result of doctrinal differences, but rather the result of man’s intolerance of his fellow man based on the color of his skin.  The first church was called Bethel and Allen successfully sued the Pennsylvania courts for the right of his congregation to exist as an independent institution and formed the AME denomination whose principals are committed to those of Methodism.

The AME church continued to spread with major congregations in Philadelphia, New York, Boston, Pittsburgh, Washington, DC, Chicago, Detroit, and Baltimore, where the first general conference was held.  The church now has membership all over the US and in 39 countries on five continents.

If you would like to hear some great music that’s bound to move the soul, along with more about the AME rich history, then join us at the Elkton Central Library on August 23, 2014, at 7:00 p.m. as we host the Wrights AME Church Choir!

I look forward to seeing you there!


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